How To Make A Filipino Woman Admire You
Wooing women is not easy. Everyone who’s tried and failed can attest to this.
Women aren’t these mythical creatures that you just can’t seem to get. They’re human, just like you. However, they have similar thinking patterns that are different from men’s and some of their intentions and goals will be different. Both also have different ways of showing attraction, if there happens to be any at all.
Filipino women aren’t that different from western women. They are still women, regardless if they have different cultures, backgrounds, and upbringings. More often than not, they look for the same qualities in men. You have to understand them first before you try to make a move.
Understanding Filipina Women
Interracial marriage has been fairly common in the Philippines for decades now. Even interracial couples with clear age gaps don’t really bother anyone anymore. And Filipinas are known to marry older Westerners for several reasons.
The need for financial stability
Sometimes, there are people who marry to improve their financial condition. In the Philippines, this has been done in the past and has become a practice for those who are financially struggling.
Some Filipino women will marry foreigners for money, there is no denying that. They also believe that this is the fastest way for them to escape poverty. Filipinos are generally committed to their families, and the majority of them will go to any length to improve their parents’ and siblings’ circumstances, including marrying for financial benefit.
The impression of foreign men being financially well-off
Many women, especially those with limited educational opportunities, believe they have to marry foreigners since they are wealthier than Filipinos. Foreigners generate dollars for them, which means they have more money. Filipinos, unfortunately, have this mindset deeply embedded in their culture that the only way for one to earn a lot of money is by going abroad.
This is why many Filipinas assume that all foreigners are affluent and that by marrying one, they will be able to better their situation and eventually buy whatever they want.
What Filipinas Like In a Man
Here are the traits that Filipinas find appealing:
Groomed with good personal hygiene
Being physically attractive does not automatically equate to having good hygiene. A man who does not maintain proper hygiene is unattractive. He may be the most handsome man in the world, but if he doesn’t shower, it’s pointless. Nobody wants to be with a man that smells like a dumpster.
For almost every woman on the planet, smelling bad is an automatic turn-off.
Filipinas prefer a well-groomed man. That is why the majority of them now choose Korean males. Korea is very strict on its version of beauty, and it doesn’t just apply to women. Men in Korea also have their own skincare routine as well as a heightened sense of fashion that Filipinas appreciate.
So make sure you groom yourself properly.
Morals and Values
A man can have all the money in the world, but if he doesn’t treat women with respect, he can forget about any future relationships.
Most Filipinas believe that a man’s good character trumps all other positive qualities. They are taught to prioritize a man’s character over the superficial materials in life because they were raised in a primarily Catholic country.
It’s pleasant to gaze at a man with fairly attractive physical characteristics every now and again, but there’s nothing more to it than that. 6-pack abs and a beautiful face are not enough to attract her into a relationship.
Stability
A stable income, health, or a relationship. You name it. If it’s something positive, then Filipinas want it. Filipinas strive to enjoy a life free of financial worries or basic necessities. You can’t blame them for wanting a man who can provide — it’s only natural for them to want someone who is capable of managing themselves.
We all know that the Philippines is a third-world country, therefore it’s still developing. While there are few well-off and comfortable families among them, the vast majority come from low-income homes.
Stability is one of the things she expects from a foreign man. She needs someone she can depend on.
Compatibility
If she’s going to spend the rest of her life with a man, he has to be someone she can picture herself with within 30 years. Filipinas aren’t as easily seduced by the idea of love. When it comes to relationships, they’re extremely grounded.
According to a study back in 2010, we are drawn to people who are similar to us in personalities and tastes. We mimic the individuals we admire in order to make ourselves more appealing to them. Also, love just isn’t as fun if we don’t have anything in common with our significant others.
Opposites attract, yes, but it’s more fun if you and your partner have similar hobbies and likes. It makes the relationship smoother.
Most Filipinas want to be in a relationship that has fewer issues or any type of discord. Sure, arguments always happen in relationships but if it happens all the time because you two couldn’t agree on anything, it’s just exhausting.
Why Filipinas?
It’s hardly unexpected that Filipinas are natural homemakers, given their beliefs on family and its concept. This is due to the fact that many of them were raised by their moms about the ways of the house. They made sure their daughters knew how to look after themselves so that when they have their own family, they will be prepared.
Being the perfect wife and mother is part of them being natural homemakers. A lot of westerners prefer a Filipina bride because of this selfless trait that Filipinas seem to have.
Not to mention the commitment.
In the Philippines, loyalty is expected of you because locals there were raised by the Catholic Church. That means marriage is sacred, therefore infidelity is not to be tolerated. Filipinas grew up with this taught to them so they are willing to commit to marriage as long as the man they married also values commitment.
So if you want a Filipina to look at you with admiration, show her that you are husband-material and that you are capable of being loyal.
